I mean, you spend time putting the finishing touches on your profile, then you start chatting back and forth with the 10-15% of people that approach you. remaining 85-90% of prospects are completely un-dateable, and I have been working on having an open mind!
the part I CANNOT STAND is if you have a meeting, a date of sorts, you may think it has gone well but as I say....LET THE GAMES BEGIN.
the day after you wait and see if they will call....blah blah blah....it is all so exhausting and frankly wears me out
why cant there be some sort of evaluation at the end of a first date where it is all aired out, good and bad....then you could go home knowing if the person is in fact interested in seeing you again
oh and keep in mind that the person you have gone out with is probably dating 9-11 other women
things were so much simpler when I was focused on remaining single, perhaps that is the way things were meant to be.
why cant there be some sort of evaluation at the end of a first date where it is all aired out, good and bad....then you could go home knowing if the person is in fact interested in seeing you again
oh and keep in mind that the person you have gone out with is probably dating 9-11 other women
things were so much simpler when I was focused on remaining single, perhaps that is the way things were meant to be.
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